(Closed) no sex…………temporarily

posted 10 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 17
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558 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Honestly, I agree with @jaylii9. I think there are a lot of couples who don’t have sex on their wedding night – most are just too exhausted (or drunk) after the reception to even think about sex. I know sex was the LAST thing on my mind! It was nice to get a good night’s sleep and then make up for it in the morning. 😉

Post # 18
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582 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

We’re doing this! We haven’t done it since April! It has really amped up our anticipation level!

Another main reason I wanted to wait for a while is because I’m Catholic and believe sex before marriage is technically a sin, and I wanted to kind of purify myself and make it sincere when I confess it tomorrow and get washed clean!

Post # 19
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2867 posts
Sugar bee

@marjojo:  Fiance and I are doing the same thing b/c we’re Catholic.  We wanted to be sincere.

Post # 20
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582 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Confessed today and feel great! Can’t wait for blessed married sex!

Post # 21
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1937 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

My personal opinion is that suddenly removing sex from a relationship that was going fine until then can cause tension between the couple if they are both not 100% for it.  There are so many other causes of stress and tension leading up to the wedding, I don’t understand why anyone would want to add another one.  On our wedding night, we were exhausted and so ready for bed – and we were back to the hotel by 10:15!!  

I guess it’s good if both people are 100% for it, but if one person is hesitant, it can cause tension and you might not feel as connected as usual.

Post # 22
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281 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

We’ll be taking a break, but not because we planned on it. We live 2 hours apart, and the month before the wedding I’m going to be back home finishing up last minute details and getting ready to move. So, we probably won’t get a chance for some serious alone time beforehand. That’s why we’ll probably be taking a break. 😉

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