(Closed) No show bitterness

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
563 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Wait…90 of your family members didn’t show! Omg! I would be upset alao. Is it possible there was a miscommunication about the date? Was this a relationship they all approved? You don’t need their approval but it would at least explaon! I’m so sorry this happened to you

Post # 4
1247 posts
Bumble bee

littlelulu73:  I’m so sorry. At least you had fun.Congratulations for your marriage & best wishes. 

Post # 5
5226 posts
Bee Keeper

littlelulu73:  I would reach out and ask why they didn’t show. It is one thing to have a couple people flake, but 90????? That is just insane. I’d politely the ones you are closest to if there was a reason no one went. 

Post # 6
8729 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

littlelulu73:  if 90 guests didn’t show up I would be thinking I did something to offend them. Have you tried talking to a family member to find out why?

Post # 7
123 posts
Blushing bee

we need more details in order to help.

Post # 9
8729 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

littlelulu73:  the only way to find out what the issue is is to straight up ask someone. It might be uncomfortable but I don’t think you will get peace until you find out the reason. If you can’t do it then can someone else? Like your mum?

Post # 10
973 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

littlelulu73:  wait so you sent stds and invites, did you get rsvp cards with yes replies back from all 90 of these guests? If they all pyshicaly replied yes, I would think something happened. What do your parents say/think?! 

Post # 11
2698 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

littlelulu73:  Agree with PPs, you’ll have to ask to get an answer, which can be uncomfortable, perhaps you can ask your mom and she’s heard why.

I’m sorry that happened, but yay! You’re married, Congrats!

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