(Closed) NO SIBLINGS INVITED

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 17
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Sugar Beekeeper

 

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jaimie479:  Do they all support each other? Are they all happy for each others things ? Or is is just you they find a problem?  If it’s just you , then it IS a problem and like other have said, it bears looking at as to why  ALL 5 sisters have such a problem with you.

  You say that said absolutely nothing  at all when you asked what they had against your Fiance and when you asked  why they were not happy for you ? Nothing  at all ?  What did  you do then ?

If you see no chance of it  getting better I agree with the pp who said do no bridesmaids  at all. maybe a flower girl and/or ring bearer if there are suitable children available ?

  

Post # 21
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Bumble bee

I’d invite them but not have them be part of the wedding party. It’s a happy medium and it won’t ruin your relationship with them in the long term.

Post # 22
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

I agree with 

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rittenhousenewbee. Invite them – if they don’t want to come, they will decline. 

Or elope.

Post # 24
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

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jaimie479:  I would invite them and seat them and their dates at their own table. It’s worth it to keep the peace in your family. It’s never a good idea to burn bridges with family and I think that’s what would happen if you didn’t invite your sisters. I say be the bigger person. Good luck!

Post # 25
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I would just elope if I were you. Sibling drama can be the worst. I wish I could uninvite all of FI’s siblings after the drama and stress they’ve been putting us through. 

Post # 28
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Busy bee

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jaimie479:  Invite them to the wedding.  Don’t expect them to care about the details about the wedding.   Most people don’t care, they just want to show up. That might be why you think they are uninterested.

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