Post # 1
My FH was in a wedding g a month ago. The bride for someone unknown reason doesn’t like he nor I. I did however attend their wedding since my FH was a groomsman and he husband will be in ours. We wrote them a check at the wedding and they have not cashed it yet. They did not go on a honeymoon and the bride is a teacher so she’s been off from work. Aside from that all of our other friends that attended the wedding have received thank you notes. Every single one. We gave them a pretty generous check and the fact it hasn’t been cashed and that everyone else has received thank you notes is a tad bit concerning. What do we do?
Post # 2
I think it would be okay to reach out to them. Let them know you were concerned that the check never made it to them. Then send another one and cancel the first check.
Post # 3
Well if she doesn’t like you anyways I’d just go ahead and put a stop payment on the cheque lol
Post # 4
Some people think that you shouldn’t cash the check until you get the thank you cards out….I have had this happen many times over and it’s very frustrating. I have started giving cash because I’ve waited upwards of 3-4 months waiting for a check to clear.
Post # 5
- Wedding: November 2019 - City, State
If everyone else you know has received their note and their cheque has been cashed, I would reach out (or have your fiance reach out, since they’re buds) just to confirm they have received your cheque.
Post # 6
“Hey there, just wanted to check in as I noticed the gift we gave you for your wedding hasn’t been deposited yet. Could you let me know if I need to do anything on my end? Thanks for your help”.
Post # 7
flymetothealtar : have you husband reach out to the groom and say “hey man! hope you guys had a good honeymoon. we were looking at our accounts and see that the check from your wedding hasn’t yet been cashed. just wanted to make sure that you got it?”
Post # 8
Wow I never didn’t like anybody enough to not cash a check from them lol. Cancel that check and keep your money.
Post # 9
I would have your husband ask his friend about it. Maybe your card/check got lost or something?