No thank you note or cashed check

posted 1 year ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 2
130 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

I think it would be okay to reach out to them. Let them know you were concerned that the check never made it to them. Then send another one and cancel the first check. 

Post # 3
580 posts
Busy bee

Well if she doesn’t like you anyways I’d just go ahead and put a stop payment on the cheque lol

Post # 4
2677 posts
Sugar bee

Some people think that you shouldn’t cash the check until you get the thank you cards out….I have had this happen many times over and it’s very frustrating.  I have started giving cash because I’ve waited upwards of 3-4 months waiting for a check to clear.

Post # 5
3741 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2019 - City, State

If everyone else you know has received their note and their cheque has been cashed, I would reach out (or have your fiance reach out, since they’re buds) just to confirm they have received your cheque. 

Post # 6
1607 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

“Hey there, just wanted to check in as I noticed the gift we gave you for your wedding hasn’t been deposited yet. Could you let me know if I need to do anything on my end? Thanks for your help”. 

Post # 7
3560 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

flymetothealtar :  have you husband reach out to the groom and say “hey man! hope you guys had a good honeymoon. we were looking at our accounts and see that the check from your wedding hasn’t yet been cashed. just wanted to make sure that you got it?”

Post # 8
167 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2008

Wow I never didn’t like anybody enough to not cash a check from them lol. Cancel that check and keep your money.

Post # 9
201 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2017

I would have your husband ask his friend about it.  Maybe your card/check got lost or something?

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