(Closed) NO you can't wear fucking jeans to my wedding. (vent)

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
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Newbee

I understand you’re stressed out, but you need to let it go…not everything is going to go exactly as planned for your wedding, and if you keep harping over what’s not going your way, you’ll drive yourself nuts.

That said, the girl who caught the bouquet at my brother’s wedding was wearing cargo pants…people won’t be judging you based on what your guests are wearing…they’ll be thinking the guest wearing jeans is an ass.

Post # 18
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

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@CreatureFromTheBlackLagoon: Put on your big girl pants, and get over it. Or just let it ruin your whole wedding day. 

Post # 20
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707 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2004

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@CreatureFromTheBlackLagoon:  Just breathe. Maybe have a glass or 2 or 10 of wine. lol. You’re not a terrible bride or shitty person. I’d go ape shit if I was in your situation, plus you have school on top of all of this. Ugh. I’d be pissed if people wanted to wear jeans to my wedding. I have a feeling my FI’s cousin is going to dress down or wear white. Yup. He actually told me he might wear white because he looks good in white. Ugh fuck me. I said “absolutely fucking not!” and he just laughed. Why are people so stupid? Hang in there!

Post # 22
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

Do you want your engagement period and wedding day to be a time you look back on with utterly happy memories, or with memories of stress and freakouts over meaningless issues? Because honestly, your FI’s uncle’s pants do not matter. This is a choice that you can make, right now. Does this shit really matter? If you care more about your FI’s uncle’s pants than you do a happy memory, stress away…

You seem to have a lot of anger that I hope you can work through before your wedding day. 

Post # 24
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2446 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

People seriously have lost all sense of proper dress codes. You can’t wear jeans to most office buildings, let alone to a wedding. Sorry you’re going through this. Tell him to suck it up and get some khakis at least and show some respect.

Post # 25
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9916 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Hahaha, don’t worry too much about jeans.  It’ll happen, and it’s annoying and stupid (on THEIR part), but you won’t care the day of. 

A guy wore jeans and a BASEBALL CAP to my wedding.  WHAAAAAAAAAT????  

Hmm this is actually an amazing picture…

Post # 27
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Honey bee

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@CreatureFromTheBlackLagoon:  Is it possible that they cannot afford to buy a suit? I preferred people not to wear jeans and a t-shirt to our wedding, but honestly, I didn’t really care the day of. Fortunatley, only DH’s aunt (who stayed just for the ceremony) wore jeans, and I wasn’t even upset. 

As another PP said, no one will care about your wedding as much as you do. Also, keep in mind, it’s one day. Yes it is an important day, but in the end it is supposed to be a happy, fun celebration. Stressing over minor details like what people are wearing will take away the fun and only add stress. 

Perhaps kick back and have a drink. Relax a little. 

Post # 28
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550 posts
Busy bee

@CreatureFromTheBlackLagoon:  I’m sure you don’t want to hear this but I giggled through your post. You have an awesome sense of everything. Vent away, I shall listen and offer my support. And maybe giggle. But mostly support. 🙂

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