(Closed) NO you can't wear fucking jeans to my wedding. (vent)

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 47
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Rage on, it happens. I’m sure it will all work itself out though. There’s some shit you just can’t control no matter how much you want to. I did laugh a little though, I’ve uttered THE FUCK YOU ARE plenty o times since I started planning. As long as you aren’t bellowing it AT people then it’s all good… I hope : D 

Post # 49
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403 posts
Helper bee

Stay strong. You will get through this. #sobrave

Post # 50
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1782 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Jeans were the straw that broke the camel’s back. I think you have held up remarkably well until now. Just remember everything is temporary – even your feeling to strangle those who are not in compliance with formal attire. I do think the idea of a sign at the “Open Bar” would be really funny!!! If you do it, take a picture!

Post # 52
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

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@CreatureFromTheBlackLagoon:  Yah… I posted a vent a while ago and got some of the same responses. I think some people just don’t understand venting!

Rest assured though that he will be the one looking stupid and underdressed, and it won’t reflect on you. 

Post # 53
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Totally get it and totally feel your pain!!

I put “black tie” on our invite and AM SO GLAD! I prefer getting “Do I have to rent a tux?” questions … Then I can explain that I only put black tie on our invites so people KNOW to dress up! If someone shows up in jeans, I may lose it!

Post # 54
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394 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

 

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@atlbride2013:  Amen!

 

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@catwoman1701:  +1000

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@CreatureFromTheBlackLagoon:   Your post is absolutely hilarious and like Catwoman, it totally made me giggle (and I mean that in the most positive way).  It sounds like you have a lot on your plate and are entitled to a good vent by now.   Every bride has things that are really important to her and  I don’t think you’re a Bridezilla because you want people to dress appropriately for your wedding.  You’re hosting a formal event and proper attire is expected.  Period.   Good luck with everything ~ I hope it all works out!

Post # 56
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2000

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@CreatureFromTheBlackLagoon:  Ou of curiosity, asking since the comments on this thread seems to point that everything about The Big White Wedding causes stress or anxiety:

Why are you having this shindig?It’s certainly too late to cancel the big thing, but why did you plan this when weddings and celebrations can be so much simpler?

 

Post # 57
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Buzzing bee

@CreatureFromTheBlackLagoon:  You can’t control other people’s actions or behavior, but you can control how *you* react to it. You seem to have a lot of posts where things like this send you off in a rage. It’s understandably annoying. But then you take a step back, breathe, and figure out if you’re going to let these things keep overtaking your life or not. Can I just tell you that you will have much more difficult things in life thrown at you than someone wearing jeans to your wedding? How you deal with these small issues will speak volumes on how well you will be able to deal with serious issues ahead. 

Best of luck to you.

 

Post # 58
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2597 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Oh dear. 

Darling, back away from the seating chart and the favor boxes and get off weddingbee. You need a break. 

Go take a bath with a glass bottle of champagne scotch. Read a book, play guitar, go running–do whatever hobby is your hobby that is not wedding planning. 

 

Post # 59
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Date twin! My Zilla hasn’t shown yet but I feel it coming. She’s like a pimple under the skin, you feel it and know it’s coming but you can’t do anything about it until it surfaces and gets a giant whitehead on it then you pop that fucker.

My good friend got married in September. Her father’s family is full of super wealthy, successful people. And when I say wealthy it’s disgusting how much they have. Her uncle came to her wedding and didn’t brush his hair. It’s not a short, well groomed cut either. I mean, Back to the Future, I just stuck my finger in an electrical outlet. It looked awful. Did I judge my friend for her uncles horrible grooming? No, we laughed about it later.

Just breathe, it’ll all be over soon. Big hugs.

Post # 61
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471 posts
Helper bee

What if that person can’t afford a suit or a fancy dress, I know you said formal, but if that person wants to support your marriage but can’t afford a suit/fancy dress thats a tough situation. Maybe their financial situation is not as strong as it looks and buying a suit will pt them in a risky financial spot.

And it’s your wedding but I want to let you know that it’s not that big of deal (IMO) to have a person show up in jeans. I don’t think you are going to stop the wedding for that person so I wouldn’t even stress over that ..

 

 

 

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