(Closed) Nobody likes X! Fun post – let's make a master list of crappy favors/gifts/etc!

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 16
642 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 1988

Skittles131:  I completely agree!

I also don’t like when the “gifts” are actually props for the wedding/photos. If the bride wants everyone in matching robes or wearing matching jewelry…fine…just don’t include that as part of the gift.

My rule of thumb for bridal party gifts… shop for each person as if it’s their birthday.

Post # 17
564 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I once got a “rose” (colored foil) with two Hershey’s kisses inside and it took forever to open. JUST GIVE ME THE CHOCOLATE. Don’t make me work to get it out! Lol.

Post # 18
930 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Another one adding on to the NOTHING with the couple’s names or date on them, or with a person’s role in the wedding.  What in the heck would I do with a robe that says “bridesmaid” on it after the wedding?  

I have a digital cutting machine, so I can do some small etching projects, my little brother’s ex Fiance was trying to get me to etch 250 wine glasses for their wedding, with their names & dates on them.  I totally refused to do it, a, because I knew it was a stupid waste of time, I mean, nobody wants them,  b, she thought I would just do it all by myself for free and c, I couldn’t stand her.  

Post # 20
614 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014


Just don’t.

Post # 21
1299 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

100% agree with everything that’s been posted!

This one isn’t quite wedding related, but gift cards to restaurants where the person can’t eat.  Every Christmas, my aunt’s church does a funraising thing where they sell gift cards, so she buys them as presents for people.  I’m vegan, and she always sends me gift cards to chain restaurants that have zero vegan options.  The most recent one was to the Cheesecake Factory.  Is has a dairy product in the name!

Post # 22
5259 posts
Bee Keeper

Anything that can’t be eaten is not worth giving as a favour!


Post # 23
4036 posts
Honey bee

I agree about the Jordan almonds. Whoever invented those must be a sadist or married to a dentist. I always throw them out for the squirrels to eat and then they hate me for it. They gnaw the colored crap off the nuts and then I find little piles of color on my patio.

My mother’s friend was born in Italy and actually ran a wedding favors business for awhile. They were beautifully packaged and presented, but each one had a bag of 5 Jordan almonds attached, with a poem telling about what each one means. I asked if the favors could be ordered without the almonds and she acted insulted.

My family brought back little jars of Jordan almonds, from my niece’s out of state wedding. I told them they shouldn’t have been allowed through airport security – they’re a deadly weapon. The jars went into the recycling – they were too small to use for anything – and the nuts went out the back door.

  • This reply was modified 5 years, 6 months ago by  2XMOB.
Post # 24
10452 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

I think anything not edible is risking being thrown out or considered useless. At least you can eat edibles! 

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