- 8 years ago
- Wedding: May 2011
I have a very good friend (male) that I’ve been talking about wedding stuff with a lot. Right now I have 3 bridesmaids, but I’d like 4 since 2 are MoHs and I think it’d be weird to have just one other bridesmaid. So i asked this guy friend “who should be my 4th bridesmaid” and he was like “me. I’ll be your bridesman” and we talked briefly about it over IM…once…and I can’t tell if he was joking or not. I had considered asking him but didn’t think he’d want to and now I’m reconsidering. It’d be awesome if he could be my bridesman. I think that would be so fun.
Problem: I have two brothers. the future Mr has a sister who will be his “best man.” I’m pretty close with one brother but not the other. Would it be weird/inconsiderate/rude of me to ask Male Friend and not Brother(s) to be BM? I asked the future Mr about having the bros as groomsman and he was ok with the idea but not thrilled.
Another possibility I can think of is having Male Friend and Close brother as BMs and non-close brother as Groomsmen to help even things about a bit. Would it be weird to have two MoH’s, 2 bridesmen and 1 regular bridesmaid?
It’s frustrating because I don’t feel like I can talk to any of my guys about this! 🙁
Thoughts? suggestsions? comments? questions? criticisms?