- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
so my godmother is throwing me a bridal shower next weekend. 3 of my bridesmaids are out of town and won’t be coming, which I totally understand and am fine with, but I was hoping the other 2 could so I wasn’t the only younger person there, feeling awkward with all my aunts. I told them I’d love if they would come, but don’t worry about bringing a gift cause theyre doing enough with buying their dresses already.
so one of them is coming, which is awesome
I asked the other if she was coming and she said she wasn’t sure because she had plans to go to some big sorority party the night before and might be too tired/hungover. I dropped the issue.
but the RSVP date came and went and my godmother called me saying she hadnt heard from this bridesmaid to check if she was coming or not. Called her, left a message, no response
I mean I know all this wedding crap is dumb and optional but it would be nice if she came to support me. I mean, her sorority is doing this lipsyncing contest show and I’m going to that even though I don’t really want to go, because she is my friend and that is what you do.
I am getting a bit frustrated and was gonna text her “if you don’t want to come, please just at least let me know either way so I can tell the host”. but that is passive agressive. What should I do here? I just feel bummed.
ugh sorry stereotypical bridesmaid drama i know. sorry.