(Closed) Non Invitees

posted 10 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
2434 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

I wouldn’t send anything like that.  I’d wait until after the wedding and send it out as a wedding announcement.  Otherwise you might wind up with people asking to be invited, assuming they’re being invited or being hurt they weren’t invited.

Post # 4
596 posts
Busy bee

I agree with rosychicklet.  If I received it before the wedding, I might be hurt and offended if I expected to be invited.  It could lead to a lot of awkward conversations! 

Post # 5
694 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Yes, send a wedding announcement. Your heart is in the right place, but you can’t do that sort of thing without evoking confusion and possibly hurt feelings.

Post # 7
161 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

definitely send it after the wedding.

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