(Closed) Non Refundable Contract

posted 8 years ago in Money
Post # 3
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7295 posts
Busy Beekeeper

i never would have thought of this and was curious as it is an interesting argument to get your money back. i just asked my Fiance what he thought and he agreed with your Fiance – that he should be able to get his money back for the reason he said.  but then my Fiance also thinks the venue could legally make YOU pay since YOU signed the contract…..don’t know if they would go this far as taking you to court for it. but then i again i imagine you might have to go the same route to make your point and get your FIs money back. 

not sure if this helped, just some more things to think about i guess.  good luck.

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

The nonrefundable deposit is pretty standard, and it is probably stated in the contract. The owner offered you a good deal, so I would go with that. It doesn’t matter if your Fiance signed the contract or not. When he made the payment and signed the receipt, he was in essence accepting the terms of the contract. You could take this to small claims court; however, I am sure you would not win this one. I would go with the offer the owner gave you.

Post # 8
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Busy Beekeeper

@AbbeyRachael:  maybe give your Fiance a few days to cool down and maybe he wont care so much. i can totally get having to downgrade your wedding due to salary change, then how nice it would be to at least have the shower there!  that would save your Maid/Matron of Honor a ton of money too in planning an awesome shower for you!

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@AbbeyRachael: I pretty much agree with @PurpleUnicorn:‘s points about how technically maybe Fiance could get his cash back, but you’d likely be on the hook anyway. It was nice of them to offer to apply it to another event (but a bit sucky since they were rude first). Could you maybe wait for Fiance to cool down a bit, discuss how you’d really like to have your shower there, and see what he thinks?

If he’s just really, really upset about it, maybe have him (after calm, calm rehearsals with you) discuss it with the owner and say that he’s very upset by the way you were treated by the woman after you explained your situation so nicely, and that you would greatly appreciate it if you were refunded at least half of your deposit, and the remainder if someone were to book your date 6 months or more before the event date? The company would still earn what they would have had anyway by getting another event, they will have appeased your boyfriend (and saved themselves from some bad publicity *if you think you’d want to throw that in there*), and everyone is ‘happy.’ It never hurts to try.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

It is definitely an interesting angle, but I do think they would make YOU pay, even if they refunded your Fiance.  Like @NDBee mentioned, Most places will agree to give you the deposit back if someone else books the day you had reserved. This is usually a problem if you have to cancel last minute, but I’m sure they will rebook the place in 15 months time. If they rebook, it’s not really polite (for lack of a better word) to keep your canceled deposit, and the actaul deposit for the same date.  Unless you really want the shower there.. if so, you’re all set!  

Post # 11
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4770 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Sometimes places will give you a full refund if someone else takes your date, you should ask about that.

Sorry, but it seems pretty standard to me that you wouldn’t get your money back.

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

payment is a contract. i’m assuming he signed a credit card receipt? even if he didn’t though, it wouldn’t make a difference.

at least they’re working with you by giving you a credit.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Well, just think if the opposite had happened, and they had given the date to someone else after you’d signed because “technically” since only you signed and he paid, the contract was null and void. You’d be pissed and there’s no way you’d accept that argument from them. You did sign a contract and paid and were in total agreement at the time that that constituted valid payment, so I think the best you can do is accept the credit. Non refundable deposits suck if you have to cancel, but that is their nature- non-refundable. 

Post # 14
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Sugar bee

How long ago was this? Your fiance could call the CC company and ask them to reverse the charges saying he didn’t authorize it. It’s a gamble though because if the company can prove that he did, he’s on the hook. That’s why we have written contracts. I doubt you’d be able to get out of this. Your best bet is to see if they can get your date given to someone else. THEN you can get your money back. Also, you don’t know what could happen later this month. Your Fiance could come into money and your date will be saved!

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

It sounds like you’re in a sticky situation.  I can understand why your Fiance is upset but starting a war is probably going to cause more harm than good.  Plus if you could have your rehearsal dinner there that would probably be in the price range or like others mentioned you could have a pretty awesome shower!  Hope you are able to work things out!

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think what the venue did and is offerring you is pretty standard.

My parents paid for the venue deposit but they wanted the “Bride” and “Groom” to sign the actual contract.

I would take them up on the offer for rehersal dinner or bridal shower there. You are breaking a contract and personally, I think their offer is generous.

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