- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 2014
First off, I am 37 and this is my first wedding. I have never wanted your traditional wedding and feel more awkward about it since I am older and my fiancé is divorced. Originally I wanted a destination (although I’d be happy with the courthouse), but the people whom I’d want to be there probably wouldn’t be able to attend. My fiancé is more traditional so I am trying to balance his wishes and our pocketbooks. My thought is a very small ceremony followed by a dinner with those guests. Would it be appropriate to send invites to our favorite waterhole for an after party?