(Closed) None of your business!-Long vent

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
241 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

First off {hugs} I’m sorry your grandmother is being so hurtful to you. Seconly, pray abou it. I wouldn’t want you to confront your grandmother angrily and possibly say things you don’t mean. (Not that that would stop her it seems.)

To be honest I’d say go with what will make you happiest. If not having the added stress of having your grandmother comes will help then by all means don’t invite her. It doesn’t sound like she’s being supportive and she was there when you got married.

Post # 4
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7416 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I wouldn’t invite her. Not after she messed up your first wedding. It wouldn’t be worth it to me. She’s proven herself to be an endless complainer, why have yet another event which she will make about her.

Post # 5
Member
3482 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

What a miserable woman. The next time she tries to pull this, I would tell her that your VR is not up for discussion, and if she insists on forcing her opinion on you anyway (on any topic that is none of her business, not just the VR), end the conversation. Don’t give her the chance to play the role of the victim. Just hang up or walk away.

My only question to you is this: do you think there is any part of you that will regret not having her at the VR? Your answer to this question is the answer to whether you should invite her or not.

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