(Closed) Not a fan of my e-ring, thinking of adding a halo.. Good idea or not?

posted 5 years ago in Rings
  • poll: Should I add a simple halo?
    Yes, add a halo : (28 votes)
    9 %
    No, the ring is fine : (219 votes)
    71 %
    Change the setting entirely against your fiance's wishes : (62 votes)
    20 %
  • Post # 3
    79 posts
    Worker bee

    Kudos to him because that diamond looks amazing!! However, I don’t think adding a halo to that ring is the answer. I don’t know if it would be possible for one thing, and I think the band looks too thick to look right with a halo. Unless you are looking for a chunky ring look, which is totally fine if that’s your style. 

    Post # 4
    1175 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2002

    @stephadele:  I think it’s very pretty!  I would not add a halo.  I somewhat agree with your fiancé, but not entirely.  Is he open to an upgrade in the future?  I didn’t give my husband any specifics before he picked out my ering.  The only thing he knew was that I wanted a princess cut (and he learned that from my sister).  It was on a super thin yellow gold setting, with a basket head and framed corners.  It’s not the exact setting I would have picked, but I loved it for 8 years and then upgraded. 🙂 I bet he’ll loosen up a bit, and let you change it later.   It’s very pretty on your hand!

    Post # 5
    3101 posts
    Sugar bee

    @stephadele:  I am firmly in the camp of “you should love your ring.”  He doesn’t ever have to wear it on himself, why should he be the only one to like it?  You don’t see grooms picking out the bride’s dress, do you?  Hope it works out for you!

    Post # 6
    3215 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    @ceebree:  agreed!


    @stephadele:  I don’t think a halo on that setting would at all be pleasing. It may actually look old fashioned or bulky like a class ring. Have you thought about adding a 3mm shared prong diamond eternity band as a wedding band? It may make it a but more glitzy.

    Post # 7
    1649 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2000

    I agree with your fiance to a certain extent about the ring being a symbol of love.  I believe the ring should also reflect your style so I’m all about changing a setting if you don’t like it.  It’s not like you’re complaining about the size of the center stone.  Personally, I don’t think a halo would look that great with the rest of your ring.  The diamond should represent your love, not the setting! 🙂

    If he still is a bit sour about ring, I’d just pay for the new setting myself.

    Post # 8
    244 posts
    Helper bee

    @stephadele:  I have to agree with previous posters, I don’t think a halo is the way to go on this one. (It looks like he did a great job choosing a stone!) What exactly do you not like about the setting? Did you have your heart set on a halo or is that just the compromise that the two of you came to in order to change the setting just slightly?

    Post # 9
    609 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I don’t think a halo and channel set will work well together.

    Post # 10
    4495 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I love halos – I have one myself, but honestly I don’t think it would go well with your original setting. I feel like it would just be too much going on.

    Post # 11
    1148 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I agree with previous posters — halo and channel set don’t really mix well. I also feel like the woman should be able to wear something she LOVES every day…it sucks that he didn’t pick something more your style on his own, but as he said, it’s a token and therefore his love for you far outweighs the actual makeup of said token. He loves you and therefore should want you to be excited every day to wear it.

    It’s a beautiful diamond and really would stand out so much more with a more delicate band. The band is almost as wide as the diamond itself, and I was surprised to read that it’s almost a full carat. the thick band really swallows it up and makes it look smaller.

    Maybe you should just wait a while, until some of the excitement and emotions over the engagement itself die down a bit. Maybe right after the wedding he won’t feel like the ring itself matters as much, and will be less opposed to changing the setting.

    Post # 12
    141 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    I’m gonna go ahead and throw it out there that I think a halo would look amazing with this center stone, BUT you’d need to change the whole setting to do it.  I think a round or cushion halo with a pave band would look amazing with your center stone! You should be in love with your ring! 


    Post # 13
    1408 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    Your ring is gorgeous and it was given out of love.


    Post # 14
    1263 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    wow…I love it!!! My e-ring isn’t what I would have picked either….I have had my ring for 7 years now and just recently asked my dh if I could reset it into something more my style…he got very upset and needless to say I won’t be changing my ring ever.

    I think you could get a halo peg head, but like someone else mentioned…it’s going to give it a very chunky overall look. If that’s what you want and your fiance is ok with it…then do it.

    Personally, I think your fiance did a great job, but I know how you feel. I do agree with you that you should love your ring since you are wearing it…congrats on your engagement!!

    Post # 15
    7311 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

    I would not put a halo head on that band. It would look awkward. Wear the e-ring while you are engaged and buy a wedding band that you adore that can stand on its own. Then you can put the e-ring in a drawer after the wedding and wear the wedding band you are totally smitten with for the rest of your life. I think that would be a good way to balance his feelings with your own preferences and style.

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