(Closed) Not a fun post.. SPINOFF

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Have you ever been "touched"?
    Yes. When I was a minor by a minor. : (105 votes)
    21 %
    Yes. When I was a minor by an adult. : (71 votes)
    14 %
    Yes. When I was a adult by an adult. : (84 votes)
    17 %
    No, never. : (230 votes)
    47 %
  • Post # 3
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    2702 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    I was. It was in 7th grade. I developed early and this random kid in my class came up to me in the hallway and fondled my breasts. I was so taunted.

    He was a low life. I saw him scalping tickets before a football game last year. I felt better about it lol.

    Post # 5
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    4693 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    There’s some grey area with this one, but I was raped by my high school boyfriend.  It took me a very long time to admit to myself that it was rape because we had previously been sexually active, but I don’t feel like that changes the fact that I said no and he did not stop.

    Post # 6
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    3580 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    @Sweet.Sugar.Rose:  Thanks for doing this.  There has been some sad posts of late.     

    Post # 9
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    1360 posts
    Bumble bee

    I read this poll and it kind of took my breath, because I was actually just thinking about it.

    I’ve had it happen with three different people. When I was age 4-8 or 9 by a great uncle. My ‘first time’ that I consider that…with my bf at the time (said no many times.) And when I was a junior in HS by a guy I was hanging out with.

     

     

     

    Post # 11
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    2725 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    @MissBoPeep:  @Sweet.Sugar.Rose:  my story is the same with my abusive ex boyfriend.

    I have worked in Rape Crisis and in Child Advocacy and it’s disgusting the storied I’ve heard. 

    Post # 12
    Member
    1360 posts
    Bumble bee

    @Sweet.Sugar.Rose:  I agree. I’ve never gotten counseling, help, or anything.

    My Fiance knows. No one else even has a clue. I think (OT) that partially what happened when I was younger has caused my vaginismus and depression. I have been diagnosed, but I never went to counseling for it. Honestly, it’s been so long that I don’t know how it’d help.

    I’m sorry you went through stuff similar to what happened to me as well. Nobody deserves that.

    Post # 14
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    2825 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    @Sweet.Sugar.Rose:  I’m so sorry you had to go through that!! That is so awful!

    I’ve never been touched or anything, but an ex boyfriend (not dating at the time, I was casually dating someone else) took me back to his place one night after a party and “took advantage” of my drunken state, I knew that I was having sex, but I definitely wasn’t coherent enough to make the decision… I kept calling him the other guys name and just had no idea who I was with.  But I didn’t say no, and I regretted it because I was seeing someone else… I chalk it up to a drunken mistake (on both of our parts) and I’m not mad at him for it… We were both drunk and things happened.  Under different circumstances I would have hooked up with him so I don’t fault anyone but myself for getting THAT drunk.

    Post # 16
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    1245 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I haven’t, but my heart goes out to each of you that has ever been violated in any type of way. πŸ™

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