- 8 years ago
For those that are curious, I talked to my mum again today and told her how I felt, and she said she didn’t mean to upset me, and I should absolutely go with what I want… I think she said “It’s no big deal to have multiple bands, either, be it for different phases of your life, or whatever reason, I have three!”
She agrees that I should also get a second set of bands in the same design, but without the glow, in order to trade them out. She also said she will back up my choices, and defend me against those who would give me a hard time.
I am very relieved that she said that, and she mentioned that while she wouldn’t choose it for herself, and other people might think it’s silly, she was just trying to protect me, but she realizes that it’s important to me, and does actually like the ring, she just didn’t want people giving me a hard time.