(Closed) Not a romantic relationship, but I’m going through a group of friends breakup :(

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
7173 posts
Busy Beekeeper

I’d start distancing myself from them, honestly.  If they can’t be honest with themselves, I don’t see how they would be trustworthy friends.  I know making friends is difficult, but it sounds like their true colors are starting to show – and are these really the type of people you want to be associating yourself with and investing precious time in??

Post # 4
5096 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

If the two women are 3Ls, they’ll be moving on soon anyway. I’d try to expand my social circle.

Post # 5
5977 posts
Bee Keeper

Yikes…this sounds like a mess! So, I’m assimung that both Jimmy and Caroline are talking to Holly and Arnold separately and not when they’re together? B/c having them talk to them while they’re together would solve a lot. It would be much harder for Holly to say that they’re just casual sex buddies right in front of him. Maybe arrange something where they’re all together at once and have them hash it out on their own? This just seems like such a shame that you’re going to lose your friends b/c they can’t own up to what’s going on.

Post # 7
120 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@Dizbee: Holly is an insecure child with boundary issues. You’ve already seen how she behaves toward her “best friend”. Now she putting her paws on your Fiance… I wouldn’t wait around to find out what kind of special treatment she has in store for you.

EXIT, STAGE LEFT. Holly and Caroline will be leaving soon. I kind of feel bad for Caroline, but if this happened before, she knew what she was dealing with. Arnold is a pawn and is coming off as a buffoon. Poor Jimmy, he just got duped.



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