(Closed) Not A Supportive Friend and rude to my FI… but closes friend, invite or not?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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1629 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

If you aren’t regularly speaking to each other I don’t see why you would have to invite her.  The only reason I would is if it would be more drama not to.  I personally would not want her there.  It sounds like she’s jealous that you’re happy and not handling that very well.  So it’s really your call.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Maybe she is just having trouble getting used to you being with someone. You’ve only been together for 6 months. I would wait to see if her feelings change with time. Otherwise I don’t see why you have to invite her.

Post # 6
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774 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

My Fiance and I had the same issue. He had a close friend who isulted him a year ago, and they hadnt talked in a long time. When we got engaged, they asked “Why are you getting married?” My fi thought that was quite rude. So again, they didnt talk for a while. When it was time for in invites to go out, we didnt send them one. They got pretty upset!!  My fi and him are talking now, and he explained why he didnt get an invite and the friend understands. If your not getting married until next year, just give it time. If she doesnt come around, then I would say no.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@echolove:  I know, its weird. I feel like with a lot of people, if they are miserable, they want there friends to be that way too…

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