(Closed) not a typical how-far-is-too-far post…

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

We didn’t wait, but I had a friend who did and she said that her and her now husband did most everything else besides intercourse.

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@MisssPumpkinBarry: My bff did everything including anal penetration. I’m sorry but in my opinion that’s not waiting.

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

^ I agree. “waiting” to me, means waiting to be intimate. Being intimate includes a LOT more than vagina penetration.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

I kind of always thought of waiting as not having any intimacy (i.e. oral sex, heavy petting, anal, etc.)

 I didn’t wait though 🙂

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@mwitter80: I almost feel like anal sex is MORE intimate than vaginal intercourse. I would love to have someone explain that reasoning to me.

Post # 9
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I didn’t wait but I have had friends that did.

One couple didn’t do much beyond making out (I’m pretty sure – she’s very quiet and shy about this kind of stuff).

The other couple did pretty much everything except penetration (aka oral, heavy petting, etc but no anal).  None of that even started until partway through their engagement either.

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

We haven’t done oral (because i think it’s gross) and any insertion of his man parts anywhere, but we have fooled around with other stuff. For us, it was more about me not getting pregnant and sort of easing into intimacy since he was/is? my first boyfriend. It’s not a religious thing for us, I guess, as much as it is a timing thing. 

Post # 11
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Sugar bee

@LMD84:

+ 1 million. 

SO much more intimate. And in a weird way, oral sex is too I think.  It’s literally so close to your face, maybe thats why.

But anal being less intimate?  Maybe because your facing away but my gosh..

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