Not asking guests originally due to social anxiety issues…

posted 3 months ago in Guests
Post # 2
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760 posts
Busy bee

happilyeverafter2017 :  I would just invite them… If you all live in the same town then they should get the invitations pretty quickly.

Post # 3
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1496 posts
Bumble bee

I think B listing is rude. You didnt want them originally, now that you have extra space they are seat fillers/gift givers. I dont think using social anxiety is a way ‘out’ of being rude in this case.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2050

happilyeverafter2017 :  Technically it’s not considered polite. They will know they were B-listed, so if this is likely to offend them, I wouldn’t invite. If they know they’re not your nearest and dearest but would still like to come see you and have some fun, then I would invite them and give them the option.

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2017

happilyeverafter2017 :  If you have it in your budget, go for it! The worst that can happen is that they say “no.” I added on new friends from work that I totally was not planning on inviting literally a month before my wedding.

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