(Closed) Not attending bridal shower (OOT)

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
7295 posts
Busy Beekeeper

i dont think u need to send a gift, espcially if u are planning to give one for the wedding!

Post # 5
658 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I agree with PurpleUnicorn. The wedding gift should be enough.

Post # 6
37 posts
  • Wedding: June 2012

i have this issue all the time.  i live in california but grew up in michigan, and all of my dear high school friends who get married invite me to their bridal showers.  obviously i’m not going to shell out an extra $300-400 in plane tickets to attend that in addition to their wedding, and generally i feel that they’re just trying to make me feel welcome and included.  i don’t send them a separate gift, as the expense of attending their wedding is already so high and of course i get them nice wedidng presents.

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