- 5 years ago
- Wedding: December 2013
I asked my best friend of 10 years to be my Maid/Matron of Honor. Granted, things weren’t perfect. She wasn’t acting really excited or supportive of me being engaged, she is very different than me, she is a GREAT girl but we are VERY different. I personally think we are very different but more so best friends due to the length of time we’ve been with ecah other.
The wedding is two months away and we’re just not close. It’s not upsetting to me because there aren’t any hostile feelings (or so it seems that way) it’s just a bit awkward when we’re together. We bonded a lot as single girls, and now that i’m getting married she’s not jealous by any means, but we don’t have our guys to gossip about and in general, just by being in separate states we’re much more distant
i dont know if it’s worth talking about it with her, i dont even know if i shoudl ask her to do a speech or she expects it, i know a long time ago she mentioned writing a speech but i haven’t brought it up. i basicaly just dont know what to do.