(Closed) Not Engaged Yet Sister Says I Can’t Get Married in Oct

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

You’re officially engaged, you can have the wedding when you want, as far as I’m concerned. Since it sounds like her engagement is months away, she can have October of next year.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee

Umm…you don’t get a month. You sure as HELL don’t get TWO months. You get a day. And you get to pick that day when you get engaged.

What is she gonna plan a wedding in three months? I’m assuming she’s dating someone. Well-until he proposes tell her to STFU. Pick a date in October if you want. Let them scream and cry. No ring–no say.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

No you are totally justified. She’s not engaged yet, and even if she were, she gets a day…not a month (or two).I think that if everyone thinks that October is her month, avoid the drama and tell her that she can have October, but you’re taking November…she can’t have both.

Not that you should have to, but would you consider waiting until December? I used to live pretty close to Phoenix (Avondale) and I remember December having beautiful weather during the day time…although it got pretty chilly at night.

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

Sorry, but your sister and mom are acting a little crazy. Until you sister is engaged, she has no right to pick any day to get married. You were engaged first, so you have first pick. I would just tell them to deal with it. You already have things thought out, so they need to come to grips with that.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@nicole1218: That sounds nutty. You are totally justified! Pick a date in October and let her claw and whine all she wants.

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

For real, she has no right to tell you October is hers!

 

In the words of Stephanie Tanner:  “HOW RUDE!”

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@allee2388: LOL! I loved that show 🙂 how very approperiate!

Post # 11
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Helper bee

I say you go bridezilla on her, and claim the entirety of 2011. She can have October and November… next year.

That solves any question of having two family weddings too close together quite nicely. *nods*

 

Post # 12
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@MissHoneyBun:  You are officially my fav Bee!  Tell it like it is!  Love it.  No need in dusting sugar all over it.

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Your sister is nuts and self centered.  Go ahead with your planning.

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Woah! You have your wedding when you want to! She can decide whether or not she wants to share YOUR month when her time comes!

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Wait, she’s not going to get engaged until later this year and she wants to have her wedding in October, which is…..later this year?  How is she going to work THAT?  I’m all for short engagements but that’s a little much.  Are you sure she didn’t mean Oct 2012? Either way, she’s being a little brat and needs to get over herself.  Is she ACTALLY going to get engaged later this year or is she just assuming she is without really knowing?

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Your sister is acting a little crazy pants. She can have next October.

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