(Closed) not even a “hey happy B-day”

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3762 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Wow long post!

I don’t think you should kick her out just because she overreacted about the bday thing.  It would honestly just cause more drama.  Leave it be and focus on the wedding. 

Post # 4
311 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I agree with caszos. Changing up the wedding party and kicking her out will only add to the drama. It seems like it was a miscommunication of sorts, but since it’s really bothering you, I would suggest sitting down and talking with her, in a “take the higher road” kind of way. Tell her your side, see what she says, and try to work it out from there. Especially since you’re lifelong friends!

I hope it work out!

Post # 5
1391 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Kind of sounds like a BIG misunderstanding and hurt feelings on all ends. Let it rest for a few days and then when emotions aren’t so high reapproach it. A life long friendship is NOT worth giving up that easily….but that’s just me.

Post # 6
714 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Honestly, I think you’re both being childish.  You each got your feelings hurt and  retaliated against the other in a really unnecessary way.  You’re BOTH overreacting and acting childish. 

Why not put an end to the drama and just call her, apologize fo not inviting her to the first dinner and see what she says?  More than likely she will apologize as well.

Plus, I just have to add that you don’t seem to like your friends very much – calling them “child” and “dopey?”  C’mon now.

Post # 7
6661 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

I was upset when one of my BM’s totally forgot about my birthday, but never for one second considered kicking her out. Some people are just forgetful adn honestly we’re old enough now that our Bday’s aren’t really a big deal anymore to people other than our immediate families.

Post # 8
405 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I think you should invite her for coffee or something and explain the sisuation and mention you never wanted to offened her by not inviting her but it was all last min and she even stated on fb she was working…. just have a heart to heart with her… I don’t think you need to kick her out over it, I think you just need to be on the same page…

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