(Closed) Not even engaged yet and wedding drama has already started…..

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
1510 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Ok.  Breath. You aren’t even engaged yet, but the drama is already starting.  I know exactly how you feel.  I would recommend nipping it in the bud by telling your mom and anyone else who is meddling that you appreciate their input, but that this isn’t the time since you are not engaged.  Additionally, I would tell them that when the time comes that you are engaged, you will be open to discussion (this is if your mom is paying).  If you are paying, I would tell them now that while you appreciate their ideas and think that they will be helpful during the planning process, you and your Fiance will be deciding on the type of wedding that best suits you.  After that, end of discussion.  Do not return phone calls when voicemails are left about your wedding.  Do not answer emails about it either.  Nip it in the bud now.  Otherwise, it will only get worse.

Post # 4
Member
2742 posts
Sugar bee

First off, stop telling people who you are not close with your plans. If you don’t like said girl, there was no reason for telling her about your ring browsing etc. A good “My bf and I are keeping it close to our chests right now” and if for some reason you do tell someone something and it filters back to her, so be it. You are not that close to her. Such negativity should not impact your everyday life. About your mother, I’ve got nothing. Just hope she pipes down a bit. And if you do want your father there, I pray you have the fortitude because it seems like she might put up a fight.

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