(Closed) Not excited :/

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

There are times that I don’t feel excited and overwhelmed.  I can’t pinpoint as to why, but it can be discouraging.  I think everyone goes through this once in awhile.  It’s only natural when you want everything to be absolutely perfect and sometimes we don’t even know where to start.

I wish you the best of luck though.  You’ll come through eventually.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@SimplyChic11: I’d say it’s normal, ’cause I feel like that a lot of the time.  I think I’m more excited about having crafty stuff to do than the wedding….

of course, the LAST party my Fiance hosted that had around 50 people I hated with a passion… but this time will be different.  For one, there will be more people I know and love and he’s promised to not stray from my side.  The only thing is…. there’s gonna be A LOT more than 50 people at this party!  EEEEK! 

Give yourself time and I’m sure by the time January rolls around you’ll either be super excited or panicking…. or both πŸ˜‰

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Spring next year is a ways off (though it will go quickly!) Once it gets closer, and people around you start expressing excitement, you will probably feel a bit better. Ours didn’t really become “real” to me until about a month ago. Although, that being said, most of my excitement is for being married to my Fiance (and the honeymoon), not the stressful, detail-heavy, logistical nightmare that is the wedding. πŸ™‚

Post # 6
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2011

its 2 weeks before our wedding and I am not excited. Everyone asks me if I’m nervous and excited and I just say yes to end the dreadful conversation that follows me saying, “no. not really.” I guess its just how you handle things, specially since you have school to worry about. I know I’ll get excited eventually, (like the day before Wink) good luck though!!!

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

I think it’s perfectly normal even to feel that way. You get so excited to get engaged and then, if you are having a longer engagement, you kind of just go “Okay….now what?” I get excited randomly but it certainly isn’t a daily feeling. I get excited to book things or I got excited to get my dress and things like that, but it’s not this constant “Omgeeeeeee I’m getting married in 8 months!” (It has been much longer than 8 months total, lol). So, just let yourself feel what you feel. It’s normal. πŸ™‚

I’m not sure I’ll feel any different. I haven’t over the past several months, really.

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I know what you mean! I haven’t been excited this whole time….everyone is giving me junk about it…bc they say it should be the happiest time of my life but it’s really not!! It’s the most stressful & I’m not a huge fan of people all in my business….I am however amazingly excited to marry my love & be a wife!!! I can’t wait till that starts! That’s the only thing getting me through all this! Even if you never get excited just remember to enjoy that day & be excited in that moment bc all the stress leading up to it has to be worth something right? πŸ™‚ good luck!

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