- 6 years ago
Don’t get me wrong, I am SUPER excited to marry my Fiance and be his wife. But I don’t feel excited about the actual wedding anymore.
I’ve been getting stressed out big time lately – mostly because people don’t seem interested in the wedding. A lot of my FI’s family aren’t coming to the wedding, and some of the ones that are kind of act like it’s a hardship to come because they have to travel for it. Some of his siblings aren’t even coming.
Our wedding party hasn’t asked much about any details and when I try to tell them things that are important (ie. logistics) they either tell me I’m stressing too much and overplanning, or they have to question everything and make it unnecessarily difficult. I don’t feel that trying to have a plan in order so that things go smoothly on the day is too much to ask for. I am NOT a last minute person at all.
My mom snaps at me a lot because she is stressed about the whole thing as well. I am taking things out on Fiance and I really don’t like it. Luckily he loves me anyways and forgives me for my moments.
I just don’t know how to get excited again. I can’t help but worry that everyone will be running amok on the day because no one cares about being organized and I will have a meltdown because I am so Type A.
Ugh, someone please cheer me up and help me get excited for my wedding again.