(Closed) Not feeling sexy :(

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
3078 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I think you should take some time and treat yourself to something you enjoy-that might boost your confidence and make you feel sexy!  Maybe go get your hair done or get a massage? 

Post # 4
164 posts
Blushing bee

i hear you! i think we all feel that way at some point or another…it’s easy to get in a bit of a ‘lazy’ rut, at least for me it is anyway.

i think the #1 thing that helps me feel sexy is staying fit. no matter how much i despise working out, i find that if i do it on a regular basis i’m pretty much guaranteed to want to jump SO’s bones at anytime 😛

Post # 5
5242 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@sheilamelo:  I found some gray hairs recently and it totally freaked me out!! I think the best thing for you to do to get out of your rut is first get rid of those old lady pajamas….. you have many years in the future to wear those so dont start now.

Then you need to find something make you feel good like joining the gym. Like PP said the gym keeps you fit and will then make you feel sexier! Trust me it works! 😉 

Post # 6
4275 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Alittle exercise goes a long way, as well as taking some “me” time like shopping or getting my hair done.

Post # 7
9690 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@sheilamelo:  Awww, it’s ok, we all feel that way sometimes.  You need to pamper yourself. 

When I want to feel really sexy I do this:  I get up and get dressed in a sexy outfit (with some hot undies underneath) and some rockin’ heels, put on makeup, and style my hair.  I check my look in the mirror and it’s instant pick-me-up.  Then, I go out with my Fiance for the evening to a club or wherever seems like a fun place that has something going on.  We like to socialize and get out and about; we especially love our local bands and really enjoy the live music.  I always feel sexy when I shake my ass in a crowd on the dance floor, too.  😉  There’s a fun, energetic, sexy vibe and it works every time for me.  The way my Fiance looks at me at those times helps a lot, too, lol.  I can see it in his eyes.

And laugh!  Laughing will make you feel sexy, and your Fiance will love your hot, sexy, bad self, don’t worry.

Post # 8
1036 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

hair done, change up the cut, highlights ? nails done. pedicure. or a little exercise, even though he might not notice you will feel a difference in yourself.

Post # 9
3626 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’d say do a sexy exercise class like pole dancing, belly dancing or zumba – even if you just get the dvds. I feel hot since I started doing yoga (last week haha but it’s true!).

Post # 10
1048 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

My tried and true way to feel better about myself in general: a good long run. Also helpful: a new haircut; an awesome new lipstick; a cute new dress.

Post # 11
807 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

My go-to: Heels. The worse I’m feeling, the higher they get. 

Running (yay endorphins!) and sexy underwear definitely help too.

Post # 12
569 posts
Busy bee

@sheilamelo:  it is my firm belief that every girl needs a good dermatologist! fine lines and the beginning stages of aging can easily be fixed with fillers! yay!

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