Member- Tarheelgurl
- 6 years ago
- Wedding: April 2015
So lately I’ve been attempting to take my mind off getting engaged and have been trying my best to focus on the here and now in our relationship. And surprisingly it’s been getting easier for me. I’ve found two other things to focus on more right now. 1) Applying for my permanent residency here in his country and 2) our upcoming trip to Jamaica. 😀 Ok, well maybe I’ve been focusing more on Jamaica, haha, but either way it’s helping. He really wants me to be surprised, so I figure the more I focus on other stuff and try to forget about getting engaged, the more he’ll feel less pressured, and the sooner we will be officially engaged. Plus I do want to be surprised and after I took a step back from being Miss Planner and looked at our life, the more I wanted to relish this time in our lives together.
