- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
okay my dilemma is that me and my family.my dh and our two young sons live in the same house with his brother…and we simply don’t get along..i wish our lease was already up so that we could just move away from him…because i really don’t know how much more of him i can stand. we rarely speak now since we got into a really big blow out a few weeks ago and i really don’t feel comfortable with him there…and before anyone ask why don’t he just move out…well he won’t he has no place to go and his brother my dh won’t kick him out…and quite frankly he is tired of him as well. we got stuck with him because the home we are currently renting was the same home his mother was renting before she passed away last year from breast cancer..
so since we were on her lease the land lord transferred it into my husband’s name… we have been married for almost four years and since i have been living here I have been living with his family the whole time…going from living on your own to having to live with a bunch of people has been quite a tranisition for myself and I guess I am just at my wits in.. Every time we get into it I am always the one that gets really upset and my feelings end up getting hurt. yes i have explained to my dh and right now we don’t have the funds to just up and move away…
i am just very tired of dealing with him and just want to get on with my life already… dealing with in laws have never been really easy for me… since i have been here i have had people calculate how long we will be together via a psychic or just there own guess.. so i never really felt apart of his family really…i get along better with some of them now but his brother i have just decided that we will never be able to deal with one another..and should just keep our distance from one another since we can’t get along…i guess i just really needed to get this off my chest because it has been bugging me for so long and i have just reached my breaking point…i feel better now that i got to vent that somewhere…(MAJOR SIGH)