(Closed) Not going to propose anymore

posted 6 years ago in Proposals
Post # 3
Member
748 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Sorry you’re having such a rough time of it..

He kind of sounds like a jerk honestly. Holding a proposal over your head is mean and childish. Like “Do what I say and don’t make me angry or I won’t propose to you!” stuff. Or “See, if you had just not made me angry I’d have proposed”..it just sounds like he’s using it as a tool to control and manipulate you and your feelings IMO.

The kind of guy you want to marry won’t have his feelings about the relationship change every time you get in a fight.

Good luck

Post # 4
Member
764 posts
Busy bee

Are you sure you want to marry this  man? He sounds like an jackhole. Most men who pull that ” I was going to propose but YOU did_” are full of sh-. Do you really believe he was going to propose? You have a child. He gets mad packs up ALL his stuff and leaves and then assumes he’s welcome back home?

Post # 5
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2442 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Here is what I think.  I really do hope that I am wrong.

He’s stringing you along.  He tells you things to get your hopes up, then gives you an excuse (that is your fault) as to why he didn’t follow through on what he said he was going to do.  If he wants to marry you, he’ll propose and marry you.  If he doesn’t, he won’t.  You need to do some serious soul searching.  If you really want to get married, tell him what is important to you (don’t give him a date though) and give yourself and him what you think is a reasonable amount of time to follow through.  Be ready to move on with your life without him if he doesn’t make a move within your timeframe.    Don’t get pregnant again before this happens – if it happens.  If you are willing to be with him, regardless of whether you’re married or not, give up on the getting married talk and go on with life without expecting to get married.  It could still eventually happen though.  You have to take action, (or inaction) for yourself.  Don’t sit around waiting for him to decide your future.  

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