(Closed) NOT how I was hoping to end my night

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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379 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

I feel you on this one.  When Darling Husband & I bought our first house, he moved all my things in by himself as I was out of state for a funeral.  I got to hear about “how much c**p” I had for probably over a year.  Granted, we both had things we probably should have thrown away years before but never did.  So, it did no good to point fingers and tell him to throw away his stuff when I wasn’t willing to throw out any of my things.  Long story short, we both downsized and I think we’re both happier for it.

Post # 4
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939 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Fiance and i live in a tiny attic apt and space is precious!  I feel bad because he doesn’t really have much here that is “his.”  Most of the stuff is mine.  All he has is his clothes and some movies/books.  But, i lived here almost 2 years before he moved in, so we didn’t need any furniture, not that he had any because he moved from his parents house right to my apt.  But I digress..

I would love for someone from Clean Sweep (is that even on anymore??) to come and organize all our stuff.  We have like 500 dvds scattered everywhere.  the coffee table is a mess of papers/mail and craft stuff of mine.  Ugh, it gets very frustrating.  I wish I had the money to buy furntire/storage thingies and get rid of the inefficient furniture i use now. 

In my case, im usually the one whinning about it, but not doing anything to help lol.  Before  Fiance moved in my apt was always nice and clean, but now i feel like i live in a hopeless crap heap, haha. 

 

Post # 5
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2892 posts
Sugar bee

My guy works constantly, like yours. A couple times in our old tiny apartment he mentioned how messy the place was. But it was mostly his stuff. So I threw back, “Well if you’d throw away the stuff you don’t need and sell the stuff you keep meaning  to sell that would free up a ton of space.” He shut up after that. 🙂

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