Post # 1
So, this post is totally stupid and just going to point that out now. I’d vent on my Facebook, but that’s even more immature but I’m just sooo irritated!
DO NOT MARRY A PERSON WHO IS CONSTANTLY CHEATING ON YOU! Or, if you do, don’t be surprised when your “marriage is falling apart” after 2 months. If the guy didn’t care about you and your son before, he’s not gonna start now! I dont know why people (this person in particular) will not just flipping leave the guy for good. Every time she says she’s going to, she goes back to him (seriously, like 7 times in the past year or 2). I’m about the delete her off my facebook cause I’m tired of her vague posts about not being happy and her roller coaster relationship drama with the guy WHO DOES NOT CARE ABOUT HER! He has knocked up other women before and doesn’t seem to care about those kids, so I don’t see why her and hers are going to be any different.
I mean, I feel bad for her, but at what point is she just setting herself up now? I can see if this has happened just couple of times and she thinks he can change, but this has been on going FOREVER now and you would think she’d get the picture. But she doesn’t. I really want to post on her wall to leave him and leave him for good because everyone can see he’s worthless trash. but I know it would just be mean, especially while she’s hurting, and she wouldn’t likely listen anyway (especially since she’s not a close friend).
urg. i don’t know why this bothers me since I hardly know this person. but it’s just annoying.
And I wouldn’t be surprised if next week she has a status that says “My husband is the greatest! He’s so good to me and his son.”
Post # 3
Ugh friends with no sense drive me crazy! Vent away!
Post # 4
Ugh, I hate it when people play out their personal problems on facebook like that. I also hate it when women keep putting themselves in the same situation over and over, and are surprised when it turns out just as badly as it did all the other times.
I made a personal rule. Three dramatic, overly personal facebook statuses in a row, I hide them from my news feed.
Post # 5
Too much info to post on Facebook, really… If you don’t know her that well, really, I would take her off my friends list, or at least hide her status updates. It’s not like anybody but her can do something about it, so she’s not looking for advice or help so…
Sad for her though; but maybe I’m going to be harsh here, idk… some women just can’t seem to see their value and stay with @$$ that don’t deserve them… and then when they get the courage to leave, it’s only to find similar men to start the same patterns… like it’s easier to set yourself up for failure and be miserable than to wait until you have a good man, the right man in front of you…
Sorry for the rant!! Felt good to take this off my chest.
I say, you don’t need that in your life, delete her. (I wouldn’t say the same if she were a good friend, I’m not THAT bad)
Post # 6
@greenleafmountain: LOL we were basically typing the same thing at the same time… great minds think alike! 🙂
Post # 7
lol, we probably have similar facebook friends too 😉
Post # 8
I know I should at least hide her from my news feed, but part of me also hopes that maybe she’ll finally get it together and can be happy and I’d be left wondering. She really is a good person that doesn’t deserve this (not that anybody does).
Post # 9
VENT AWAY GIRL!! haha I hate that too…especially when they don’t LEARN, ever! just be lucky you are smart and not so stuck. agh!
Post # 10
Discovered this back then and it saved my sanity: Toxic friend/drama queen….meet the delete button. *Click delete button.* Ahhh! Peace & quiet! =) Highly recommended, gals!