(Closed) Not in brother's wedding and am hurt, help please!

posted 4 years ago in Family
Post # 77
748 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

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theresabow :  I wasn’t any official part of one of my brother’s wedding and it didn’t even occur to me to be upset. Don’t sweat it. 

Post # 78
1593 posts
Bumble bee

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theresabow :  Your brother or his fiance should’ve asked you whether or not you could handle being a bridesmaid. Why would your mom have a say in their bridal party? Your mom seems too involved in her kids lives. I’m sorry this happened. I have only brothers and my mom fawns over them constantly and then does the opposite with me. It sucks.

Post # 80
825 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

You need to stop making this wedding about you and what you want. I know it sucks, but it’s not fair for you to create drama either.

Post # 81
454 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

 “She doesn’t care about how anyone else feels but herself and that’s pretty typical and always has been her repsonse was telling me to deal with it and that I have to go to my brothers wedding no matter how I feel. What if I just say I don’t want to go and don’t if this is the dynamic I rather avoid?”

So you’ve mentioned on two post now about not going…. about a wedding you felt bummed not to be a bridesmaid in and afraid you weren’t going to be invited to….

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