(Closed) Not invited to friend’s wedding =(.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@secretbee: The same happened to me.  Someone I had been friends with for about 7 years, had been exttemely close to, didn’t invite me to their wedding.  Not only did I find out about it after the event, but in a double whammy I also found out his wife was 6 months pregnant!

I’d help this guy move, had been there when he was having problems in his new job and was ringing me every day and night (sometimes at 2am in the morning) His new ‘wife’ – who was 10 years his junior – had made it clear she didn’t like the fact he was so close to myself and my OH…so I’m pretty sure that’s why we weren’t invited.

Our friendship never really recovered after that.  It’s 10 years later and I still feel pretty hurt when I think about it.  

Didn’t help that the first time I spoke to him after the wedding, he made a big point of how they hadn’t invited many people…and then put his size 12s in it by saying how he’d spent most of the reception (held at his parent’s home) ‘talking to their next door neighbour, who he barely knew’…

I hope you have, or can find, better friends x

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