(Closed) Not invited to my neice’s wedding

posted 10 years ago in Family
Post # 3
1102 posts
Bumble bee

I’m sorry you are so upset by this! Weddings can be so difficult for families. I have 8 uncles and 7 aunts, most of whom are married. I invited 2 uncles and 2 aunts, and their families, to my wedding. I just couldn’t fit the entire family and chose to invite the people who had been most involved with my life and my parents’ lives. However, it was not a secret – my parents were very upfront with their siblings about our plans and most people were understanding (and if they weren’t, they didn’t tell us!) I would talk to your brother about what happened and that you are upset you were never told. Try not to blame the couple too much – weddings are really tricky to organise and there is no way you are able to keep everyone happy in the planning!

Post # 4
913 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Do you know why you weren’t invited?  Any clue?  I think if I had a neice/nephew and wasn’t invited to the wedding I’d be pissed and very hurt.  In my family you are invited to the wedding no matter what kind of drama is going on.

Post # 5
825 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

I did not invite relatives to my wedding that I am not close to; we wanted to have a small, intimate gathering. 

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