- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2015
I’m not really sure how this is seen as “gift grabby”. If she would have invited you to the wedding, and you decided to attend, wouldn’t you have given a gift? If you also decided to attend the baby shower, that would be another gift.
By inviting you to only the baby shower, that’s only one gift you’d be giving if you attended.In my experience, people who are truly gift grabby invite everyone, no mater how close they are, to any event where they would normally receive a gift.