(Closed) Not inviting certain co-workers

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

When I was debating this I quickly came to the conclusion that you can’t single people out from different departments, you invite your whole department/bosses or none of them. Exception is co-workers who you actually hang out with outside of work.

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

At my workplace people invite those they are close to. I have never taken offense at not being invited to someone’s wedding if all we have in common is the same employer.

Post # 5
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683 posts
Busy bee

I actually was having the opposite problem- I want to invite my cube-mates, however, I don’t think they would want to travel 2 hours to the wedding, not to mention they complain (not in a mean way, just more in a tired way,) about going to numerous weddings. I don’t want to seem like I’m just inviting them for a gift…..  I’d love to see what other bees have done…

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper

if you do that, just dont invite them to your shower!  LOL. i was “singled” out along with one other coworker this year as the girl getting married invited everyone in the work place except me and another girl (who i was close with and we both didn’t care).  But she put us in a dilemma when because she felt “bad” so she was so kind as to invite us to her shower/bachelorette girly party where we get her sexy lingerie the night before her wedding! 

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