- 7 months ago
- Wedding: August 2018
Hi everyone. I asked another question about this recently, basically about how I’m close to my boss and sometimes she brings her 2 girls to work and they’re super excited for my wedding apparently because they think they’re coming (I haven’t given her an invitation yet). Our wedding is mainly child free with the exception of immediate family and our ring bearer. Also, her husband is awful and just last weekend had a situation with cops involved, sooo I feel super uncomfortable inviting him because I know she wouldn’t like it, even if they’re technically still a social unit. But other than her husband, all she has to bring are her girls so she’s not alone. My ongoing dilemma is wouldn’t it be super rude to invite her kids while not inviting others? For instance we didn’t invite any cousin’s kids so I can just imagine how they’ll feel if my boss and her kids show up. One of her daughters is also not very well behaved and I know will probably do something crazy. But I also love my boss. Somebody please give me some tough love and tell me what I should do!