(Closed) Not inviting my fiances best friends girlfriend to the wedding???

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I’m all for not inviting people who don’t deserve it. If you’re fiancé is on board, if you’re willing to stick by your decision not to have her there (like not having kids, or not giving people a +1), then I say go for it. But be willing to stick by it and be ready for fallout, if it’s that type of situation. 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I would never invite her.  The fact that she’s caused problems in your family is reason enough to leave her off the list. 

Post # 5
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11351 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

You do not need to invite a significant other of one of your guests or bridal party members unless the person you’re inviting is married, engaged to, or living with someone.  Otherwise, etiquette does not require you to invite your DH’s friend’s girlfriend to your wedding.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I had a similar problem and Inivted her anyway-then she tried to bring an extra guest! so that she wouldn’t be “bored”.

So now neither of them are comin and just FI’s friend is ( who I don’t really like either.)

Post # 7
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3303 posts
Sugar bee

Since your wedding is two years away, don’t worry about this right now. They may not even be together two years from now.

Post # 10
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

i wouldn’t invite her. its YOUR DAY!

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