(Closed) Not inviting rude coworker…?

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Invite rude coworker?
    Yes, it's rude to invite everyone else and not her : (3 votes)
    12 %
    No, it's your day, and you only want positive supportive people there : (21 votes)
    84 %
    Other- list below : (1 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    2254 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I wouldn’t invite such a rude person to my wedding. However, I wouldn’t bring the cards to work. Though it may be easier, it could be perceived that you’re rubbing it in her face that she wasn’t invited. Save the drama and mail them.

    Post # 4
    Member
    1474 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    Don’t invite her, but mail your Save-The-Date Cards instead of bringing them. I had the same issue but the nasty coworker ended up getting fired prior to my wedding 🙂 You might get lucky!

    Post # 5
    Member
    734 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    Don’t invite her! Only invite the people you really want there. Its a coworker too, so its not like you shoudl feel obligated to invite ANY coworkers if you didn’t want to. I think its fine to invite everyone else but not her.

    And it seems like it should be easier since it seems like everyone else already knows how she is (they’ll stand by your decision) and she obviously has already noticed that maybe some people aren’t too fond of her negativity…

    Post # 7
    Member
    6211 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

    Don’t invite her! But I also don’t think you should bring them into work, because that’s just asking for drama

    Post # 9
    Member
    4 posts
    Wannabee

    she’s only been there 3 months? I wouldn’t invite her!

    A. she’s rude

    and

    B. you don’t even know her that well

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