Post # 1
I just got my save the date cards in the mail! Yay!
so, I work in a office with aboit 12 people. I get along and have fun wialmost oust everyone, so I am planning on inviting everyone. About 3 months ago we got a new admin, and the girl is just plain rude. She talks sh*t about me and other people in the office, and then gets offended when she doesn’t get invited to lunch or happy hour.
everyone in the office told me to bring their save the dates to the office and I really don’t want wedding my wedding. Should I invite her out of courtesy, or invite everyone except her and listen to her be rude about it?
Post # 3
I wouldn’t invite such a rude person to my wedding. However, I wouldn’t bring the cards to work. Though it may be easier, it could be perceived that you’re rubbing it in her face that she wasn’t invited. Save the drama and mail them.
Post # 4
Don’t invite her, but mail your Save-The-Date Cards instead of bringing them. I had the same issue but the nasty coworker ended up getting fired prior to my wedding 🙂 You might get lucky!
Post # 5
Don’t invite her! Only invite the people you really want there. Its a coworker too, so its not like you shoudl feel obligated to invite ANY coworkers if you didn’t want to. I think its fine to invite everyone else but not her.
And it seems like it should be easier since it seems like everyone else already knows how she is (they’ll stand by your decision) and she obviously has already noticed that maybe some people aren’t too fond of her negativity…
Post # 6
wow. Excuse the typos, my ipad is being crazy with autocorrect
Post # 7
- Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House
Don’t invite her! But I also don’t think you should bring them into work, because that’s just asking for drama
Post # 8
All good points. Thank you girls!
Post # 9
she’s only been there 3 months? I wouldn’t invite her!
A. she’s rude
B. you don’t even know her that well