(Closed) Not inviting someone who got a STD

posted 7 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I would go ahead and send him an invite. It’s a little too awkward to send him a STD and not an invite. He might even still plan on attending, which will be even more awkward if he shows up.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

that would be really awk to work with him after wedding after you lied to him and some other co-workers went. Invite him.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I know it was horrible, but I did this. My former boss who I was pretty close to at the time got an STD but then I left that job and we haven’t spoken since. She will not be getting an invite. I did this also to cut down on the final guest list, nevermind the fact that it would just be awkward.

But since you still work with him, it may be a little odd. Chances are if he’s invited alone, he probably won’t go anyway. But I think you have to follow through on this one.

Post # 6
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Newbee

If you still work with him and/or are inviting other co-workers I think that could be odd, the right thing to do would be to invite him however if  you flat out don’t like him/don’t want him there just don’t invite him and don’t talk about it, if he asks you you could mention the budget changed and you apologize for not being able to invite him, or you could say something like, really I mailed it you didn’t get it….ugh I hate the post office……hahaha.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I wondered the same thing…

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

STD = invitation in my opinion. Don’t give him a +1 or anything, but do send the invite just to keep things “right”.

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