- 6 years ago
- Wedding: February 2013
This is a guy that Fiance wants nothing to do with, but when it comes to the guest list, suddenly Cousin is in. Cousin is a total creep, says really inappropriate things to me at family events, and under normal circumstances we have nothing to do with him. He makes me very uncomfortable, and Mother-In-Law agrees. He’s a weirdo.
Not to mention, we have enormous families, and we’re already over our max for the guest list.
FI’s point is that we can’t cherry-pick cousins. It’s all or none… but does it really have to be that way? I thought this day was about us? Why would we want someone to celebrate our relationship when he, ahem, has nothing to do with our relationship? Is it really that bad to exclude certain family members? Why/why not?
Any thoughts/experience greatly appreciated.