(Closed) Not inviting them???

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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3799 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

 I am not inviting everyone in a group I workout with and I am having a lot of anxiety over it. I dont have enough space in my guest list for all of them, so I’m limiting it to the girls I’ve known the longest.

When people ask me if they are invited, and they are not, I just tell them that it is a family only wedding because of how small it is. This is basically true, even if I am just stretching the truth a little bit.

Post # 4
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2616 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

just say venue is small and we cant hold as many people as we would like too?? im not sure..  fiances mil keeps adding to her guest list and im annoyed// room max is 22o.. fiance wanted to invite coworkers  so i made sure the list stayed at 200 so he has the space to allow his coworkers to come…. but im not sure how it will be since mil isnt exaclty sure how many is in each family. FML…

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Meh – I work in a smallish office and I certainly don’t want the whole company at my do, I like them but.. it’s my big day you know, work and colleagues change all the time.

Never feel guilty who you want there, and just say it’s a family only thing, and ask your chosen few from your workplace to keep it quiet about their invite 🙂

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