Post # 1
So, I work in a school and everyone knows about my upcoming wedding, but I’m not inviting everyone. There are only about 6 people in the school that I am inviting. Since then, I’ve had two people (who aren’t on the list) ask me if they are going to be invited! One, RUDE!!! And two, why would you ask someone that??!! Has this happened to anyone else? What did you do?
Post # 3
I am not inviting everyone in a group I workout with and I am having a lot of anxiety over it. I dont have enough space in my guest list for all of them, so I’m limiting it to the girls I’ve known the longest.
When people ask me if they are invited, and they are not, I just tell them that it is a family only wedding because of how small it is. This is basically true, even if I am just stretching the truth a little bit.
Post # 4
just say venue is small and we cant hold as many people as we would like too?? im not sure.. fiances mil keeps adding to her guest list and im annoyed// room max is 22o.. fiance wanted to invite coworkers so i made sure the list stayed at 200 so he has the space to allow his coworkers to come…. but im not sure how it will be since mil isnt exaclty sure how many is in each family. FML…
Post # 5
It’s tough because I don’t want to hurt people’s feelings, but I’m not going to invite you just for the sake of inviting you! I hate having to make people feel that they aren’t included, but sometimes, I guess you gotta do it for the sake of money. Everytime I’m around them, I think, only one more won’t hurt, but then I snap myself out of it! You just can’t make everyone happy!
Post # 6
Meh – I work in a smallish office and I certainly don’t want the whole company at my do, I like them but.. it’s my big day you know, work and colleagues change all the time.
Never feel guilty who you want there, and just say it’s a family only thing, and ask your chosen few from your workplace to keep it quiet about their invite 🙂