(Closed) Not Keeping it Simple!

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
836 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013 - The front lawn of our church

@rosiedee:  Darling Husband had no concept of how much wedding stuff costs. We had a total budget of $3000. He had soooooo many things on the list of things we should have or do. Whenever he would make a suggestion I would just say, “Ok, that’s fine. It will cost x amount. Are we ok with that?” Every single time, his answer was, “heck no!” Lol I would try doing this with your Fiance. Guys see things like this as “little” changes. They don’t realize what a difference they make. 

Post # 4
1640 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I didn’t deal with any of that, my Darling Husband left everything up to me…but guys don’t really have a comprehension about how much stuff costs. When I brought up costs to my husband he was always like “that is SOOO expensive!” So I showed him all the estimates that were for like 4-5x more than what I had settled on and it really opened his eyes.

Maybe showing your Fiance cold, hard numbers will help.

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