- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
i’ve been scanning for threads on this topic, and was so surprised to discover other bees in the same boat!
i’ve always had the higher sex drive (every day, sure!!!) and my fiance claimed he needed ‘a break’ of a day or two (or three)…this was when he was working at a pretty laid back company.
after a year of being laid off, then going on two years of much more stressful contract work, his already low libido has really tanked. as in, i keep a spreadsheet to remember the last time we do it. yes, it’s kinda sad.
it kills me to hear ladies complain about how much their men want them. i love him, but i seriously had crazy lustful feelings for a random good looking construction worker this morning. i know it’s wrong, but i feel so unattractive and rejected!
once, in a fit of despair, i asked him if i could have a boyfriend too, just to tide me over…of course that’s totally not appropriate, but i’m seriously afraid of going down that path when i’ve totally reached the end of my rope.
we are looking into counseling, i mentioned going to the doctor to get tested for low testosterone…
i’m old (34) but have never felt so good! when other men pay attention to me, it makes me wonder why my own man doesn’t appreciate me as a woman.
anyway, sorry for blabbing on. i’m going to check out more related threads 🙂