(Closed) Not one of my better days – Wedding Postponed and MOH Fired

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Wait…so you “fired” her and moved your wedding to her wedding month?

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

All of that together sucks.  Two of my bridesmaids don’t seem to care one lick about the wedding, and even made fun of me for trying on lots of dresses!  They thought it was totally okay to joke around about, which annoyed me.  They show absolutely no enthusiasm about anything.  Whatever, though.  I have my other two, and I am excited, and my mom is excited.  That’s enough.  I just keep reminding myself that the person who is always going to be more excited than everyone else is me!  So I can’t fault other people for not caring as much.  

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I don’t get it either… if I was going to have to change my wedding date I would want to be careful to avoid putting it in the same month as my MOH! She picked October first, you are the one who had the change in plans right?

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I thought she was planning her August 2013 wedding?

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

I guess I don’t think her text was that bad. I alsodon’t understand why your Fiance can’t work if he is taking just one class, that should help with part of the financial burden.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@Magdalena:  I think the big issue here is that Maid/Matron of Honor # 1 didn’t ask OP what was wrong and if she could help her in any way.  In OP’s eyes she was being selfish and it was the final straw for her when she had already been doubting their friendship.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Mars62312:  Yeah, I’m confused.

Who’s getting married when?  Also, what exactly is expected of a Maid/Matron of Honor well over a year before a wedding?  I don’t understand what she should be doing for you right now. 

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Mars62312:  i thought it was funny that the OP moved it to october, too, after her ex-MOH made such a big deal about it, but maybe they had some other reason for making it that month

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Leland:  I guess I was thinking that a friendship that has been a “dear” one wouldn’t be so fragile as to be broken over a text.  And let’s be honest…postponing to October is just a big FU to her Maid/Matron of Honor.  Sorry, OP…I think that’s worse than your MOH’s lack of tact in showing concern for you.

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@Mars62312:  Oh I agree with you, I was just trying to interpret it from OP’s viewpoint Smile

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@Leland:  I think you’re right. But even then, I guess I just don’t see why ladies expect their Maid/Matron of Honor to be super-involved in the planning. To me a Maid/Matron of Honor is not meant to help you plan your wedding. They are meant to accompany you on your wedding day, that’s all.

It does stink when wedding problems spoil friendships 🙁 I’m sorry this is happening OP.

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Also, I’m in a really bitchy mood with RSVP BS.  Sorry for being harsh…I’m really sorry you’re going through these financial and friendship issues.

I’m going to bed….after finishing 50 Shades and a bath :o)

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I’m sorry this is happening to you. I really hope that your friendship doesnt end over a wedding.

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Magdalena:  This is how I feel about MOHs.  The only other thing they might do is throw a bridal shower and/or bachelorette party.

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