(Closed) Not quite sure what to think…

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
4567 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

My rule for that (when we thought we were going to have to move) is that I absolutely would not move without a proposal. Up and changing your life is fun and great! And exciting when doing it with someone else cause you have a comiserator… but it’s a HUGE commitment and one that needs to not be taken lightly.

Also, why do you not like Atlanta? I’d give ANYTHING to be able to go back and live there.

Post # 4
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I know how you feel!  That is so tought trying to plan your life and moving to a completely new place without commitment.  You might want to mention to your Boyfriend or Best Friend that you don’t feel comfortable moving away without a commitment.  I know it is sort of an ultimatim for him, but if you aren’t engaged, maybe you shouldn’t move away right away and wait a while.

Post # 5
Member
6597 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

I understand your frustration!

But it seems like you guys are in a good place – talking about your future together! And him making plans WITH you in the picture not making plans without you!

Would you really leave him if he doesn’t propose before June? It seems like you are already in a very committed relationship already and the ring won’t make that commitment any more real. But at the same time by the way he discusses his future with you – you know it IS coming!

I think you guys are in a really good spot and obviously he is thinking about marriage and so the proposal will come when he is ready.

I say this but at the same time I know how frustrating waiting can be! But trust me in that it will be SOOOOOO worth it when it eventually comes!

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