(Closed) Not sleeping in bed together every night

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 46
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tiffanybruiser :  DH and I are the same way. We both start in the same bed but he snores AND I snore so we end up keeping each other awake. Usually I just get up and go in the guest room which has my original bedset from when I moved in. It is more comfortable for both of us and we both sleep better. No more Mr and Mrs Gumpy-Pants.

Post # 47
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

We sleep together every night and we usually sleep naked. 🙂

Post # 48
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

we mostly sleep in bed together.  i usually go to be earlier.  sometimes he wakes up in the middle of the night and will go lay on the couch in the other room because he doesn’t want to bother me and ends up falling asleep. and when he’s sick, he will sleep in the basement even though i don’t care.  i stay in our bed when i am sick.

Post # 49
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Blushing bee

My bf tends to hit the hay before I do, but sometimes I go in with him and lay there and cuddle for 10-20 minutes or so that we can just have some alone time.  We have 3 kids combined at different phases of life so our alone time is valuable.  We also will cuddle in the mornings if we don’t have early client appointments or events to attend.  

For the most part, we sleep together.  I don’t like anything really touching me while I sleep and he’s a restless twitchy sleeper so I may throw my arm around him and cuddle him while he’s asleep (he says he likes this but I, persoally, would hate this, lol) but only for about 10 minutes before I have to roll over and fall asleep.

We both sleep wtih t shirt and underwear because the kids come in early to jump on us and snuggle.  I’ve never been a naked sleeper, though, even before kids came along.

Post # 50
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

My ex husband and I almost never slept in the same bed. There were a multitude of reasons from his work schedule to his snoring to….well he is my ex husband for a reason. 

My fiancé and I sleep in the same bed every night. I do tend to go to sleep earlier bc I am up earlier for work but he watches tv in our room until he falls asleep. I feel safer and sleep better when he’s next to me. 

On the weekends where our kids aren’t here (his two my one) we do sleep naked. During the week and on weekends when the kids are here we are clothed. You never know who’s gonna wake up at 3am lol 

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