(Closed) Not Sure How to Handle

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2204 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I would call the bridesmaid and tell her it was your call to postpone, you made your decision, that’s it. Don’t let your Maid/Matron of Honor get beaten up over it.

In the Boston area, we’re supposed to get a lot of rain and wind but really, the traffic is going to be a nightmare and would you really want hung-over friends driving in awful conditions?

If your Bridesmaid or Best Man is still upset, offer to do dinner together instead, maybe she was just really looking forward to playing hostess or something.

But seriously, she needs to chill out.

Post # 5
1489 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@LaMarie412: Postpone….Its a Hurricane and that is reason enough to do that. People’s safety is more important than anything

Post # 6
5572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’d give the Bridesmaid or Best Man a call and let talk it over with her. As long as you are ok with it she should be ok with it too! Sure, she won’t be inconvenienced if you didn’t reschedule because she’s in the same town but she needs to consider everyone else who is out of town. The Out of Town bridesmaids will be a lot more relaxed if you reschedule to sometime in the future so that they can just have fun instead of stressing out about whether they’ll be stranded away from home or not 🙂


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